Updated November 2026 ยท 50 questions
Hard would you rather questions
No easy outs. Every question below makes you lose something you care about. Play them with friends, on a date, or alone at 2 a.m.
Then try the harder game: not what you would pick, but what most people would.
Love and relationships
#01
Read your partner's mind for one day, or let them read yours?
ARead their mind
BLet them read yours
Why it's hard: One honest day can end a relationship either way.
#02
Your partner's ex becomes your boss, or your ex becomes theirs?
ATheir ex is your boss
BYour ex is their boss
#03
Know every lie your partner ever told you, or never find out about any of them?
AKnow every lie
BNever find out
Why it's hard: Ignorance is comfortable. Is it love?
#04
Marry your best friend with no spark, or a stranger you can't stop thinking about?
ABest friend
BThe stranger
#05
Your partner sees your whole search history, or you see theirs?
AThey see yours
BYou see theirs
#06
Be loved by someone you don't love, or love someone who never loves you back?
ABe loved
BLove without return
Why it's hard: Both are lonely. Only one hurts every day.
#07
Forget your first love completely, or remember every detail forever?
AForget it all
BRemember everything
#08
Your partner can never lie to you, or you can never lie to them?
AThey can't lie
BYou can't lie
#09
Find out your partner cheated once ten years ago, or never know?
AFind out
BNever know
Why it's hard: The past is over. Or is it?
#10
Move across the world for love, or stay home and lose them?
AMove
BStay
Money and morals
#11
Find $10,000 and keep it, knowing it was someone's rent?
AKeep it
BHand it in
Why it's hard: Nobody would ever know. You would.
#12
Get $1 million now, or $5,000 a month for the rest of your life?
A$1 million now
B$5,000 a month
#13
Report your best friend for a crime, or keep quiet and share the blame?
AReport them
BKeep quiet
#14
Double your salary but your family thinks you're a fraud, or stay broke and respected?
ADouble salary
BBroke and respected
#15
Win the lottery and lose your best friend, or keep the friend and never get rich?
AThe money
BThe friend
Why it's hard: Easy to say. Harder to mean.
#16
Your boss pays you double to lie to a customer, or you quit on the spot?
ALie for double pay
BQuit
#17
Inherit a fortune from someone you hated, or nothing from someone you loved?
ATake the fortune
BNothing
#18
Return a stranger's lost wallet with $500 in it, or keep the cash and post the wallet back?
AReturn it all
BKeep the cash
#19
Be rich and nobody knows your name, or famous and always broke?
ARich and unknown
BFamous and broke
#20
Pay 50% tax and know it all helps people, or 10% and never know where it goes?
A50% that helps
B10%, no idea
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Friends and family
#21
Your best friend tells you a secret that would hurt your sibling. Tell, or keep it?
ATell your sibling
BKeep the secret
Why it's hard: Loyalty to whom?
#22
Be the favorite child and know it, or be equal and never be sure?
AThe favorite
BNever sure
#23
Lose all your friends but keep your family, or the other way around?
AKeep family
BKeep friends
#24
Your parents read your diary from age 15, or you read theirs?
AThey read yours
BYou read theirs
#25
Be the friend everyone calls in a crisis, or the one everyone invites to parties?
ACrisis friend
BParty friend
#26
Know the exact day your best friend will leave your life, or be surprised?
AKnow the day
BBe surprised
#27
Leave a party without saying goodbye, or stay two hours longer than you want?
AIrish exit
BStay
#28
Have one friend who would die for you, or a hundred who like you?
AOne true friend
BA hundred fans
#29
Tell your friend their partner is cheating, or pretend you never saw it?
ATell them
BPretend
Why it's hard: The messenger usually loses.
#30
Spend every holiday with your partner's family, or never see yours on holidays again?
ATheir family every time
BNever yours
Life and death
#31
Know the date you'll die, or the way you'll die?
AThe date
BThe way
Why it's hard: Either one changes every day after.
#32
Live to 100 alone, or to 60 surrounded by people who love you?
A100 alone
B60 and loved
#33
Relive your worst day once a year, or forget your best day forever?
ARelive the worst
BForget the best
#34
Save five strangers, or one person you love?
AFive strangers
BThe one you love
#35
Never feel physical pain again, or never feel heartbreak again?
ANo pain
BNo heartbreak
#36
Be remembered for something you didn't do, or forgotten for something great you did?
ARemembered, wrongly
BForgotten
#37
Restart your life at 10 with your memories, or keep going from today?
ARestart at 10
BKeep going
#38
Know everything about your future, or nothing about your past?
AKnow the future
BLose the past
#39
Be the last person on Earth, or the first person on Mars with no way home?
ALast on Earth
BFirst on Mars
#40
Have a pause button for your life, or a rewind button that only works once?
APause button
BOne rewind
Why it's hard: Pause forever, or fix one thing?
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Truth and secrets
#41
Everyone hears your thoughts for one hour a day, or you hear everyone's?
AThey hear yours
BYou hear theirs
#42
Always say exactly what you think, or never be able to say it at all?
AAlways say it
BNever say it
#43
Your biggest secret goes public, or you carry it alone forever?
AIt goes public
BCarry it forever
#44
Know what everyone really thinks of you, or never wonder again?
AKnow the truth
BNever wonder
Why it's hard: You'd find out who your friends are.
#45
Be caught in one huge lie, or a hundred small ones?
AOne huge lie
BA hundred small ones
#46
Your phone shows your messages to your mom once a week, or to your boss?
AYour mom
BYour boss
#47
Find out you were adopted at 30, or never find out?
AFind out
BNever find out
#48
Be famous for a viral embarrassing video, or completely invisible online?
AViral and embarrassed
BInvisible
#49
Have every lie you tell come true, or every truth you tell be doubted?
ALies come true
BTruths are doubted
#50
Delete one memory forever, or keep every one, even the worst?
ADelete one
BKeep them all
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